Remote control vibrators are sex toys that add an element of convenience and thrill to your everyday sexual adventures. Not only are they versatile, but most of them can be worn in public without alerting anyone to your fun! Remote control sex toys come in all shapes and sizes, from rabbits to cock rings, many familiar sex toys have a remote control alternative that makes an excellent option for those who enjoy relinquishing control. These types of sex toys not only appeal to those who enjoy handing control over to their partner, but also for those who enjoy discreet stimulation in public or more fun and variety in your bedroom. Most couples use remote control sex toys for foreplay, but they can provide intense orgasms for some. In this guide, I will review the top five best remote control vibrators and go over some tips on how to shop for one and how to get the best pleasure out of it.
The Lelo Insignia Lyla 2 Remote Control Love Egg Vibrator is a luxury remote control vibrator that is much more than your average Joe vibrator. As the second generation, it provides you with fifty percent more power and eight pleasure settings. The remote control is wireless and can be used from up to twelve meters away. The shape of the egg is perfect for g-spot stimulation when inserted, but can be used on the clit as well. You can use this remote control vibrator alone or with your partner, for masturbation or foreplay. It is only three and a half inches in length with a four and a quarter inch circumference. Thanks to the small size and silky smooth silicone, the Lelo Insignia Lyla 2 Remote Control Love Egg Vibrator slips in easily with a small amount of water-based lubricant. Both the remote and the egg are made with silicone and ABS plastic.
Despite the egg is small, made of body-safe material, and beautifully tapered - the Lelo Insignia Lyla 2 Remote Control Love Egg Vibrator is not made for anal play. Never insert anything into your anus that does not have a flared base. Even if it does have a strong retrieval cord, like this egg, it is still not safe for anal play. That being said, you can use this remote vibrator for external anal stimulation; it also works amazing for nipple play and other erogenous zones. While the strong vibrations do feel great on any erogenous zone, I have found that this remote control vibrator is amazing for public play! The control has sense motion, which means that you can adjust the intensity of the vibrations by just flicking your wrist. Or hold the remote horizontally to tease the wearer with gentle vibrations or vertically to send them over the edge. SenseMotion is a patented feature by Lelo that is available only in their remote-controlled toys and adds a whole new level of control to your playtime. The best part of the Lyla 2 Remote Control Love Egg Vibrator is that the remote vibrates in time with the egg. This is a feature that I have found difficult to find in remote control vibrators.
On top of having a hard time to find a feature, the Lyla 2 Remote Control Love Egg Vibrator is also rechargeable via a USB cable and is completely waterproof. Two hours on the charger will provide you with two hours of playtime, and please allow your vibrator to charge completely before the first use. When you get your remote control vibrator, you will also find a satin drawstring storage pouch, two triple “A” batteries, and a sample of Lelo’s lubricant. Sadly, you will need the triple “A” batteries for the remote. I do recommend getting rechargeable batteries to keep on hand for your remote. Thankfully, the vibrator is super quiet, so if you choose to use it in public, no one will have a clue as to what you are up to, and since it is inserted, you will not have to worry about sitting on it wrong and alerting the nearest bystanders.
The Lelo Insignia Lyla 2 Remote Control Love Egg Vibrator may look like just a basic egg vibrator, but it is also so much more than that. Paired with its SenseMotion remote, this little egg can turn any playtime or public scene into a fun and liberating experience. While the remote does not tell you what setting the egg is currently set on, it does provide you with options that other remote control vibrators do not. Simply flip the controller horizontal to make the vibrations low and steady, or turn it vertical to shock your partner with intense, orgasm-inducing vibrations. If you do not like the SenseMotion feature, turn it off and use the easy to use buttons to cycle through the eight pleasure settings.
The Fifty Shades Freed My Body Blooms Rechargeable Panty Vibrator with Remote is the only remote control vibrator on this list that comes with a pair of panties. The panties are included for public play, but you can use the vibrator without the panties or wear the panties without the vibrator. The panties are made with beautiful stretch lace and satin. It has satin ribbons to tie at your side. The inside of the panties is made with cotton, for your comfort and health. They are designed to “fit most sizes” and are fully adjustable to your size and needs. The panties feature a pocket in the crotch that the vibrator slips easily into, and the vibrator is specially contoured to fit against most body types. If you find that it doesn’t fit against your body just right, I recommend wiggling it around and trying different positions against your clit.
The Fifty Shades Freed My Body Blooms Rechargeable Panty Vibrator with Remote is operated by remote control and is incredibly quiet. Like the Lyla 2 Remote Control Love Egg Vibrator, this remote control vibrator comes with eight different vibrator modes, unlike the previous vibrator it also comes with twelve levels of vibration intensity, providing you with a truly customized experience. To cycle through the eight settings, just hit the middle button on the remote. To increase or decrease the intensity of each setting, use the plus and minus buttons on the remote. Sadly, this remote is not responsive, like the previous one, but it is incredibly simple to operate. The remote does require a watch battery, but thankfully, this is included. If your watch battery dies in the remote, I recommend checking the website you purchased the remote control vibrator from to find a replacement. Other than the watch battery for the remote, the Fifty Shades Freed My Body Blooms Rechargeable Panty Vibrator with Remote is rechargeable via an included USB cable so you can charge it anywhere in the world, and can be completely submerged in water (do not get the remote wet, it is not waterproof).
This remote controlled vibrator is made with one hundred percent silicone, so use a water-based lubricant to help the Fifty Shades Freed My Body Blooms Rechargeable Panty Vibrator with Remote slip and slides against your body. It is only four inches in length and is not made for insertion. The remote is easy to use and comfortable to hold; it offers a discreet operation from up to eight meters away. If there is a good bit of interference in the way, furniture/thick clothing/etc., then you may experience some delayed feedback or no feedback at all. Sadly, an hour and a half of charge will only get you an hour of play, but it does come with a travel lock for peace of mind on the go. It also comes with a luxury satin storage bag that makes storing the remote control vibrator simple and pretty, and I recommend storing your panties nearby or remembering which pair has the vibrator pocket.
The Fifty Shades Freed My Body Blooms Rechargeable Panty Vibrator with Remote is the only panty vibrator I have included on my list of best remote control vibrators and for a good reason. It provides the user with eight vibration patterns and twelve intensity settings, which are all easily accessed via the remote. The remote is discreet and comes with the battery required to operate it. The panties can be worn with or without the vibrator, just like the vibrator can be used with or without the panties. This is perfect for those who enjoy the discreet public play but do not want to wear their vibrator internally.
The Desire Luxury Rechargeable Remote Control Rabbit Cock Ring is the only vibrator on this list made specifically for me. This remote control vibrator is a cock ring that is made from silky smooth silicone and offers restriction gently to the wearer. The light restriction may provide a stronger erection, while the soft rabbit ears will provide stimulation for your partner's clit. The silicone ring stretches to fit most penises and has a resting diameter of one and a half inches. This cock ring is made to be worn around the base of the penis, but if it fits comfortably, can be worn around the cock and balls. The silicone feels soft against the skin, but you may experience a little tugging if you have pubic hair. This ring works with or without the remote, but we have found that it is easier to operate without interrupting sexy time if you use the remote.
The ears on the Desire Luxury Rechargeable Remote Control Rabbit Cock Ring are soft and flexible. This remote control vibrator offers twelve different speeds and eight patterns for a variety of pleasure. Like the Fifty Shades Freed My Body Blooms Rechargeable Panty Vibrator, the remote for this vibrator cock ring is easy to use. It features a middle button that cycles through the eight patterns, and a plus and minus button to help you increase or decrease the intensity of the vibrations. Cycling through these options without the remote is a bit more difficult. The Desire Luxury Rechargeable Remote Control Rabbit Cock Ring is completely waterproof and rechargeable via an included USB cable. An hour and a half of charge will provide you with an hour of playtime. I hate toys that take longer to charge than the provided playtime, but the pros for this cock ring far outweigh this con. It also features a travel lock and a very luxurious storage case - which can be used to charge the toy discreetly. While the cock ring itself is rechargeable and waterproof, the remote is neither of these things. Do not get the remote wet. The remote also requires a single CR2032 battery, which thankfully, is included.
While I do not recommend wearing a cock ring out and about, unless you can conceal a boner easily, the Desire Luxury Rechargeable Remote Control Rabbit Cock Ring is incredibly quiet and will not alert any bystanders if you do choose to wear it out. This is also handy if you live in a shared environment. Sadly, the remote is not responsive with the vibrator, and unless you are wearing it, or have your hand on it, you will not know what setting it is on without your partner telling you. That being said, the vibrations are incredibly strong and will have your eyes rolling into the back of your head with pleasure. The vibrations make the ears wonderful for grinding into, but, as a woman, I have never found that pounding away with a cock ring is pleasurable.
The only cock ring on my list of the best remote control vibrators is the Desire Luxury Rechargeable Remote Control Rabbit Cock Ring. It is part of Lovehoney’s Desire line, which guarantees comfort, ease of use, and orgasms. This cock ring is made to fit up to a two-inch diameter and comes with an easy to use remote. The flexible rabbit ears, eight patterns, and twelve speeds ensure that both parties will enjoy themselves when using this remote-controlled vibrator. If you do choose to wear this remote vibrator in public, I do recommend learning to properly conceal your arousal, as that is the only thing that would alert others to your naughtiness.
The Remote Control Rechargeable Silicone G-Spot Love Egg is a silicone egg that is fantastic for internal and external stimulation. It is made with silicone, so use some water-based lube to help it glide over your body. Use it on any erogenous zone to add an extra layer of pleasure to your playtime. The curve and tapered head make it perfect for pinpoint g-spot stimulation, or easy clitoral stimulation. It offers twelve pulsations that are all easily accessed via the single “XO” button on the remote. A single push of the button will turn the device on, cycle through the twelve settings, and turn the device off again. While I am not a fan of single-button devices, this makes the Remote Control Rechargeable Silicone G-Spot Love Egg perfect for someone looking for something simple to use. You can wear this remote vibrator out and about, use it for masturbation, or foreplay. The options are only limited by your imagination.
The Remote Control Rechargeable Silicone G-Spot Love Egg is completely waterproof, as far as I can tell, this includes the remote - but I have not tested that. Unlike the previous three, this remote control vibrator is completely rechargeable, yes that includes the remote. This is my favorite thing about this one because it means you do not have to keep any batteries on hand. I hate keeping up with batteries, especially watch batteries. The egg itself has a small hole that you have to puncture with the charger to charge it, while the remote has a small metal hole where the charger fits. Since this remote-controlled egg is designed to be worn internally, it does have a strong retrieval cord. That does not mean it is safe for anal though, do not stick things up your bum that does not have a flared base. That being said, it is fairly small. The Remote Control Rechargeable Silicone G-Spot Love Egg has an overall length of six and a half inches, with four of those being insertable. It also has a three and three-quarters circumference at its widest point. This remote controlled egg is perfect for someone looking for a beginners remote controlled sex toy.
Some of the biggest problems I have with the Remote Control Rechargeable Silicone G-Spot Love Egg lies with the remote. I like a remote that tells me what the wearer is feeling, that way, and I am not blindly trying to tease them and be on a really bad setting for teasing. My other problem is that there is no way to turn the device on remotely with the remote. You have to turn on the device, turn on the remote, and wait for the two to connect. This means that the egg has to be on before being inserted. If the device turns off while someone is wearing it in public, they will have to dip into the bathroom to turn it back on, as there is no way to turn it on with just the remote.
The Remote Control Rechargeable Silicone G-Spot Love Egg is a great little remote control toy for g-spot stimulation. If you are someone who enjoys pinpointing g-spot stimulation or handing over the remote to your partner while you pleasure your clit, this remote vibrator is a great option. It is affordable, and the best part is that both pieces are rechargeable! Do not get me wrong, I love remote control toys, but I hate when only the vibrating portion is rechargeable. The Remote Control Rechargeable Silicone G-Spot Love Egg is perfect for anyone who does not want to keep batteries on hand or struggle to find the right watch battery for their remote.
As the only non-rechargeable remote controlled vibrator on my list, the Lovehoney Thrill Seeker 10 Function Remote Control Love Egg Vibrator is the best option for those looking to explore remote controlled toys on a budget. This remote control vibrator is made of ABS plastic but glides as smooth as silicone with just a little bit of water-based lube. It has a three-inch length with a four and a quarter inch circumference. The egg requires two triple “A” batteries, while the remote takes a single CR20322 battery, both of these are included. I recommend buying extra CR batteries from the retailer you buy the Lovehoney Thrill Seeker 10 Function Remote Control Love Egg Vibrator from and keep rechargeable triple “A” batteries on hand.
The toy itself is completely waterproof, but the remote should be kept completely dry. If water does get on the remote, you should dry it off as quickly as possible to avoid messing up your device. The Lovehoney Thrill Seeker 10 Function Remote Control Love Egg Vibrator has ten patterns and six speeds, helping you achieve a customized orgasm. The remote can reach up to five meters away. The power button turns the egg on and off, and it also cycles through the functions. The plus and minus button will help you to adjust the vibration intensity of each pattern. You can also cycle through the settings by using the single button on the bottom of the egg, but I find this to be limiting and irritating. The egg is bulbous enough to hit your g-spot, but the shape of this device makes it perfect for overall erogenous play.
The Lovehoney Thrill Seeker 10 Function Remote Control Love Egg Vibrator has a strong retrieval cord but is not ideal for anal play as it can get lost. A feature I love about this cheap little remote control vibrator is that it comes in three different colors. I hate it when toys are only produced in one or two colors and love that I have options with this one! It also features an adorable little heart, LoveHoney’s logo, on the base of the remote. I do not like that the “o” ring and battery compartment are placed right in the middle of the egg and do find that the ring can be irritating during insertion. I find that ensuring the cap is completely closed using a good bit of lube helps to reduce the irritation.
The Lovehoney Thrill Seeker 10 Function Remote Control Love Egg Vibrator is a fantastic option for anyone (beginner or not) looking to explore remote control toys without breaking the bank. While neither part of this set is rechargeable, it does come with all the batteries you will need to get you started straight out of the box. I do recommend removing the batteries when not in use to save juice. That being said, the range on this one is not as great as the others, but the options for vibrations and power is amazing for the price point.
There is a reason why every vibrator on this list is wireless - it is because I do not like wired vibrators. Vibrators that are wired give you less space to work with, the remote is connected to the vibrator, and you can only get the two so far apart while using them. While some might come with a wire that is three feet long, that is not near as much space as you will get with a wireless remote vibrator that comes with a range of twelve feet. If we are honest, twelve feet of wire would be more of a pain in the ass than anything.
My personal opinion aside, if you are looking at a wired remote control vibrator, you should know that they are great for solo play. Often enough, the cord is just long enough for you to use yourself comfortably. This is also a great option if you play to use it during sex with your partner, as you will still be close enough to the toy and the controller. They are usually easier to store and travel with as well because there is only one piece to keep up with. Deciding whether wired or wireless is best for you, mostly depends on what you will be using it for.
While most toys come with a variety of vibration options and patterns for you to choose from, the vibration options on a remote-controlled toy are more important than others. Since you will likely be handing control over to your partner, how they want to control, you should be taken into account when looking at the vibration options each toy offers. If your partner simply wants to tease you every now and again, a single button device with a couple of options may be best because it is easy to operate and does not have too many bells and whistles.
If your partner is wanted to push you to the edge of an orgasm and slowly bring you back down for a night or a date, you may want something with more vibration options and patterns, and that offers your partner feedback on what you are feeling. These may be more difficult to get the hang of controlling, but they are very worth it once you have the buttons down. Sometimes remote control vibrators will sync up with a Bluetooth or wireless connection, giving your partner even more control over what you are feeling. This option is perfect for those who like to control every little detail of their partner's pleasure.
As you can see from the best remote control vibrators listed above, there are many different ways to use a remote-controlled vibrator. You can wear them in your panties, as with the Fifty Shades Freed My Body Blooms Rechargeable Panty Vibrator with Remote, or around your cock, like the Desire Luxury Rechargeable Remote Control Rabbit Cock Ring. There are some that you wear internally, while others just rest against your clit. Even more, some are strapped on like a pair of panties and rest against your clit while another portion of the device slips inside of you! What you are going for with your pleasure will determine what kind best fits your needs.
If you are looking for something that can be discreetly worn all day, you may want to look at remote control panty vibes or those that are in the shape of an egg. Since most remote-controlled vibrators require you to turn on the device before connecting the remote, you may want to keep that in mind when deciding what style best suits your needs. If you are looking for something that can be used during foreplay, I recommend a remote control egg as they are the most versatile when it comes to pleasing any erogenous zone.
As I mentioned with wired remotes, how much distance you get with your new remote-controlled vibrator is important. If you get a wired remote, you will only get as much distance as the cord will allow. But many wireless remote controlled vibrators will provide you with at least up to three meters! Checking the distance and knowing just about how far you will be from your partner while using a wireless remote control vibrator is important. It is also important to consider interference, such as other people, furniture, or walls. If a remote control vibe is cheaply made, even clothing or your vaginal wall can be enough to cause interference.
Some remote control vibrators, like those made by We-Vibe, come with an option to connect via an app. Connecting with the app will allow your partner to control your vibrator from across the world without any interference. Others have the option to connect via Wi-Fi or Bluetooth. These can be finicky and come with their own set of problems, separate from those of the traditional wireless remote control vibrators. Be sure you have a strong Wi-Fi connection or that you are in range for Bluetooth if your remote control vibe comes with these options.
While I have already listed a ton of reasons to use a remote control vibrator, there are still more! Not only could it completely change up your masturbation routine, but it could spice up your long-distance relationship. You can achieve a hands-free orgasm or let your partner give you one from across the room (or across the world!). Most of them allow you to customize how you receive your pleasure, giving you a unique orgasm. Not only that, but you can discreetly play in public with no one having any idea!
Sometimes remote control vibrators come with the option to pair it with other devices for mutual stimulation or to pair it with a VR device for a truly immersive porn experience. I love handing over the controller to one of my partners for a night out where they are in control of my pleasure. They are the sex toys of the future, giving us a fun and convenient option to let our partners take control.