5 Best Strap On Dildos Of 2019

The best 5 strap on dildos chosen and reviewed for you

5 Best Strap On Dildos Of 2019

Strap on harnesses and strap on dildos are interchangeable words that both refer to a dildo that is placed in a harness of sorts for penetrative, hands-free fun with a partner. While strap on dildos is most recognized as being used by the lesbian community or for a wife to penetrate her husband anally, there are actually a ton of uses for the versatile, removable appendages. Some people use them for double penetration, while others do not have a penis but enjoy the visual of being given a blowjob. What you use a strap on dildo for is entirely up to you and only limited by your imagination. The biggest problem you are going to face, though, is deciding what style, size, and look you want in a market that is flooded with strapon and strapless dildos!

Best Overall

1. Spareparts Hardwear Unisex Joque Strap-On Harness

1. Spareparts Hardwear Unisex Joque Strap-On Harness

Unlike the Lovehoney Advanced Unisex Strap-On Harness Kit with 7 Inch G-Spot Dildo, the Spareparts Hardwear Unisex Joque Strap-On Harness does not come with a dildo. It is just the harness, but do not let that deter you from considering it. The Spareparts Hardwear Unisex Joque Strap-On Harness straps around the waist and thighs for added comfort and support. It is adjustable between twenty and fifty inches or a US dress size difference of four to twenty-eight. It is made with durable, breathable materials (poly-spandex and mesh) and it is entirely adjustable for all your needs and fits flush against the pelvic area.

When Spareparts was creating the Spareparts Hardwear Unisex Joque Strap-On Harness, they kept flexibility in mind and created a design that adapts to the wearer's size and shape, virtually becoming a “second skin.” It fits like a jock strap and has a built-in stretchable elastic “o” ring that stretches between an inch and a quarter to two inches. It is not as versatile as the Lovehoney Advanced Unisex Strap-On Harness Kit with 7 Inch G-Spot Dildo when it comes to how many styles and sizes of dildos it can fit, but you do not have to fuss with and keep track of various “o” rings.

Like the Lovehoney Advanced Unisex Strap-On Harness Kit with 7 Inch G-Spot Dildo, the Spareparts Hardwear Unisex Joque Strap-On Harness does have a pocket (actually two!) in the inside of the harness so that you may add your own bullets for added stimulation (there are no bullets included with this harness). Another cool feature is that it comes with a mesh storage bag. I adore this because most of my harnesses just mix in a drawer. Also, like the previous harness, this one is machine washable. Again you should lay it flat or hang it to dry. Do not machine dry!

The Spareparts was creating the Spareparts Hardwear Unisex Joque Strap-On Harness states that it leaves the vulva open for access for other play, but I have found that it covers the vaginal canal, making penetration nearly impossible, unless you pull the harness aside, which then causes you to lose your leverage for thrusting. It does leave full anal access, but I was excited for the opportunity of vaginal play while wearing this harness. You can pair the harness with a strapless strapon for double penetration, but as you can imagine, this takes some creativity.

One of the best features of the Spareparts Hardwear Unisex Joque Strap-On Harness is how stable it is. The dildo stays well in the “o” ring and does not sag. The straps are sturdy and stay in place when you adjust them to fit you. I have used mine a good bit and have not noticed any loosening. There is velcro on the harness that has also held up to the test of time very well. Overall the Spareparts Hardwear Unisex Joque Strap-On Harness is an incredibly well-made harness and is perfect for people who want to feel as close as they can to really giving.

Conclusion

The Spareparts Hardwear Unisex Joque Strap-On Harness has a stretchy “o” ring so you can use a variety of dildos and not have to keep track of a ton of differently sized rings. It fits like a jockstrap and is comfortable for long term wear. It is completely adjustable, and while it does not come with a dildo, it is a great first-time harness for new users. One of the best features of the Spareparts Hardwear Unisex Joque Strap-On Harness is that it has an open bottom, giving the users access to the wears genitals. The style of this harness ensures that it will not sag during use and it holds up very well over time. The Spareparts Hardwear Unisex Joque Strap-On Harness is the best overall out of all the strap on dildos on my list!

Best Kit

2. Lovehoney Advanced Unisex Strap-On Harness Kit with 7 Inch G-Spot Dildo

2. Lovehoney Advanced Unisex Strap-On Harness Kit with 7 Inch G-Spot Dildo

The Lovehoney Advanced Unisex Strap-On Harness Kit with 7 Inch G-Spot Dildo is, as the name suggests, a kit that includes a harness and a dildo. This guarantees that the dildo will fit inside the “o” ring, but can be replaced with dildos. It comes with three “o” rings to ensure that most harness compatible dildos will be able to be worn with it. The three “o” rings come in the sizes an inch and a quarter, an inch and a half, and two inches. The harness itself fits between twenty-eight inches and sixty-five inches, or a US dress size of eight to twenty-eight. The included dildo is seven inches in total length with an insertable length of six inches and a circumference of four and three-quarters of an inch.

The dildo is curved for g-spot or prostate stimulation, but as I said before, you can replace it with any dildo of your choice. The harness fastens around your hips and legs for comfort and security. The harness also features a pocket on the back so you can insert a bullet of your choosing (not included) for added pleasure. It is also machine washable to make cleaning a breeze, although I, personally, recommend letting it air dry. Use a light soap and warm water if you choose to hand wash, but again, this is unnecessary. I would not recommend hanging it out on your clothesline!

The included “o” rings are made of silicone, they are incredibly durable, yet decently flexible. The flexibility of the “o” rings helps with getting the dildo in place. It is suggested that you clean them after every use - even if there was no skin to “o” ring contact. While they are strong, I did notice that the included dildo tended to sag a bit within the harness, which has me questioning if this harness would be compatible with heavier dildos. I have my doubts but have yet to try it. You may find this problem with longer dildos as well.

The included dildo, as I said before, is made of silicone. I was unable to find a single seam along the length of the dildo. It is flexible and feels spongy, but it is solid enough that insertion (even anally) was easy. There is no drag on the silicone, which means you will need to apply less lubricant than you would with stickier dildos. I do recommend using a good anal lube if you plan on using the Lovehoney Advanced Unisex Strap-On Harness Kit with 7 Inch G-Spot Dildo for anal play! You can use a thinner or water-based lube for vaginal penetration.

Sadly, my partner and I found that the curve on the included dildo was not enough to consistently provide g-spot stimulation. Thankfully, we go the Lovehoney Advanced Unisex Strap-On Harness Kit with 7 Inch G-Spot Dildo with the intention for pegging, and it works much better for that! It is narrow and precise, making it easy to pinpoint the prostate, a walnut-sized organ in the rectum of men. While the g-spot is a slightly larger area and more difficult to hit.

The Lovehoney Advanced Unisex Strap-On Harness Kit is also adjustable, machine washable, and this one comes with a dildo included! This harness is fantastic for those looking to explore strap on a play without having to invest in a separate dildo. If you decide you enjoy playing with a harness, you can later invest in different dildos because this one comes with three “o” rings to ensure you can play with a variety of sizes. The dildo that comes with the Lovehoney Advanced Unisex Strap-On Harness Kit is great for g-spot and prostate massage. Furthermore, the harness features a pocket where you can add a bullet for added pleasure.

Conclusion

The Lovehoney Advanced Unisex Strap-On Harness Kit is also adjustable, machine washable, and this one comes with a dildo included! This harness is fantastic for those looking to explore strap on a play without having to invest in a separate dildo. If you decide you enjoy playing with a harness, you can later invest in different dildos because this one comes with three “o” rings to ensure you can play with a variety of sizes. The dildo that comes with the Lovehoney Advanced Unisex Strap-On Harness Kit is great for g-spot and prostate massage. Furthermore, the harness features a pocket where you can add a bullet for added pleasure.

Best Strapless Strapon

3. Revolver Strapless Strap-On G-Spot Dildo 7 Inch

3. Revolver Strapless Strap-On G-Spot Dildo 7 Inch

A strapless strapon is a double ended dildo that is held in place by the wearer’s kegel muscles and then used to penetrate the receiver. The Revolver Strapless Strap-On G-Spot Dildo is one of the best strapless strapon currently on the market. It is made from TPE, so if you plan on sharing it with partners you are not fluid bonded with, I do recommend using a condom on it, as TPE can be porous. Since it does not vibrate and does not have any working parts, this strapon dildo is completely submersible and can be used for any aquatic adventures!

The Revolver Strapless Strap-On G-Spot Dildo is great for pegging and penetration play if you do not like the added bulk of a harness. Not only that but it is responsive to your partner's reactions - when they squeeze the longer arm, it causes the pony (aka smaller arm) to move inside you! It has an overall length of nine and a half inches with the long arm having an insertable length of seven inches and the circumference at the widest part is four and a half inches. The pony is four and a half inches with a slight curve for g-spot stimulation.

Strapless strap ons are great for working on your kegel muscles. As I mentioned before, strapless strap ons are held in place with your kegel muscles, and keeping it there is a work out all on its own. By clenching your kegels around the pony and nestling the smooth black dildo between your legs, you can pleasure your partners g-spot or prostate with little texture and smooth material. I recommend only using waterbased lubricants with TPE toys, as anything else is not water soluble and could trap bacteria in the pores - creating an infection during uses later on.

While it may take some practice to get used to wearing a double ended dildo by your kegel muscles alone, it is a fantastic alternative to harnesses. If you orgasm while wearing the Revolver Strapless Strap-On G-Spot Dildo, you may find it being pushed from your body as many people clench much harder during orgasm. One of the best features of the Revolver Strapless Strap-On G-Spot Dildo is the nubs provided at the base of the pony for clitoral stimulation during wear. You can grind against this for added pleasure, but if you find it to be irritating - slip a piece of cloth between you and the nubs.

Conclusion

The Revolver Strapless Strap-On G-Spot Dildo is a strapless strap on dildo. These types of dildos are amazing for more skin to skin contact, strengthening your pelvic floor, and having better control over the dildo. This one is made out of a porous material, but the size and shape are perfect for anyone looking to explore this style of strap on. It is important that you wear the Revolver Strapless Strap-On G-Spot Dildo a bit before playing with someone else to get used to holding it in place. It may take a lot of practice and many laughs to get the hang of wearing a strapless strap on, but it is so worth it for those who want the skin to skin you can only get with this style.

Best For Variety of Dildos

4. Doc Johnson Vac-U-Lock Platinum Corset Harness with Plug

4. Doc Johnson Vac-U-Lock Platinum Corset Harness with Plug

The Doc Johnson Vac-U-Lock Platinum Corset Harness with Plug is a Vac-U-Lock platinum harness for incredibly versatile play time. Not only does it include a plug for Vac-U-Lock compatible dildos, but it also comes with three “o” rings. The “o” rings included a one and a quarter of an inch, a one and three-quarters of an inch, and a two and a quarter of an inch. The harness fits between twenty-eight and sixty inches or a US dress size difference of eight to thirty. This harness straps around the legs and has a corset style tie in the back for added comfort.

It is made with reinforced, highly adjustable leg straps and the back is a detailed corset, the harness offers support and comfort during use. You can use larger, heavier toys with the Doc Johnson Vac-U-Lock Platinum Corset Harness with Plug, as it has broad back support and a jock strap style design. Furthermore, it offers open access to the wearer’s genitals, making it great to pair with a strapless strap on for double penetration or a wearable vibrator for extra stimulation. The ability to switch between “o” rings and Vac-U-Lock plug help you to take full advantage of a variety of sex toys!

Sadly, the Doc Johnson Vac-U-Lock Platinum Corset Harness with Plug is only splashproof, which means it is not machine washable. To clean this harness, you should use a damp rag or keep wet wipes handy. Thankfully, the material it is constructed with will not absorb fluids easily and is easy to clean off, just do not get anything on the back portion of this harness. I did find that the straps are a bit long for me, I use the smallest setting, so I cut them to fit my needs - but do not recommend this if you play on sharing the harness with your partner.

The Doc Johnson Vac-U-Lock Platinum Corset Harness with Plug is very easy to adjust to fit your body and is even easier to put on and take off. I found that taking the harness off did not interfere with play time as other harnesses are known to do because of the time it takes to get out of them. While I do not like messing with the corset on the back unless I have to, it is still easier to use than a lot of harnesses I have tried in the past.

Conclusion

The Doc Johnson Vac-U-Lock Platinum Corset Harness with Plug is part of the Doc Johnson’s Vac-U-Lock line. Not all dildos work with this system, and thankfully, Doc Johnson has included the option to use “o” rings with this style of harness. The option to use the Vac-U-Lock or the “o” rings opens a world of options for the users. This harness is made with a beautiful corset style back that is fully adjustable to a wide range of sizes. The biggest complaint I have about the Doc Johnson Vac-U-Lock Platinum Corset Harness with Plug is that it is not waterproof and cannot be properly washed.

Best for the Price

5. Lovehoney Perfect Partner Unisex Hollow 10 Function Vibrating Strap-On 8 Inch

5. Lovehoney Perfect Partner Unisex Hollow 10 Function Vibrating Strap-On 8 Inch

While the Lovehoney Perfect Partner Unisex Hollow 10 Function Vibrating Strap-On is the only strap on dildo on this list that cannot be used with any dildo, it is the best strap on dildo for the price. It is a single piece, a harness, permanently attached to a dildo, that fits around your waist and thighs. Sadly, the stretchy harness is not adjustable but instead is made with elastic to fit a variety of sizes. I have found that over time, the elastic has stretched out and did not fit as well. This strap on dildo is a great option for people looking to explore strap on play, but not a good option for those looking for something with long term use.

The Lovehoney Perfect Partner Unisex Hollow 10 Function Vibrating Strap-On has three steady vibrations and seven patterns, making for a total of ten vibrating options. To cycle through the vibrations, you use the wired remote that tucks nicely in the waistband. There is a single on and off button and a single button to cycle through the ten functions. It has a total of eight and a half inches in length, with eight inches of them being insertable, and it has a whopping six and a quarter inch circumference. The dildo is hollow and features a hole that has one and a half inches circumference, to help those with erectile dysfunction still enjoy penetrative sex with their partner.

The Lovehoney Perfect Partner Unisex Hollow 10 Function Vibrating Strap-On is made of PVC and has a veiny texture for added pleasure. If you or your partner find the texture to be too much, try using more lubricant (water-based, since it is made with porous materials) to help decrease the friction. Sadly, there is no pocket or stimulation for the wearer, but they will have full control over the vibrations that the receiver is getting. The remote does require two double “A” batteries, that are not included. As always, I recommend investing in rechargeable batteries so that you do not have to keep a ton of random batteries on hand. And always remove your batteries when you are not using your toys, to prolong their life.

The Lovehoney Perfect Partner Unisex Hollow 10 Function Vibrating Strap-On is simple enough to put on and take off. The two-inch waist strap provides added comfort and stability, but the leg straps can start to dig into your buttcheeks after being worn for a long time.

Conclusion

The Lovehoney Perfect Partner Unisex Hollow 10 Function Vibrating Strap-On is the perfect beginner strap on for the price. If you are not looking to break the bank, but want to give strap on play a go, this strap on dildo is an inexpensive, all in one system, vibrating strap on. It offers ten vibration options and has a wired remote with a loop to keep it in when you are thrusting. The dildo is hollow for those with penises who want to continue pleasuring their partner after they have finished or those who suffer from ED. The Lovehoney Perfect Partner Unisex Hollow 10 Function Vibrating Strap-On is amazing for anyone looking to dip their toes in the water without spending too much.

Buying guide

What Is a Strap On Dildo?

A strap on dildo is a dildo that is attached to a harness, that fastens around your waist, and usually, your legs, to allow you to simulate penetrative sex. Usually, strap on dildos are used by lesbian couples, but many heterosexual couples have found them to be pleasurable for pegging. Pegging is the act of a woman wearing a strap on and anally penetrating her male partner. Despite the common belief, strap on dildos can be used by both men and women. Many strap on dildos features a hollowed out dildo so that men can comfortably wear them to continue pleasuring his partner during his “reset” time or if he suffers from ED.

Picking Your Harness

Harnesses for strap on dildos come in a variety of styles. You may be overwhelmed by the many different types out there, so let me break it down for you. There are thong style harnesses that fit like a g-string or a thong. The “leg supports” rest between your cheeks, rather than under them, and this style usually does not provide access to your genitals. There is also the jockstrap style. This style buckles around your waist and the leg supports rest under your cheeks. The jockstrap style harness more often than not will provide you with access to your genitals. The underwear style harness fits just like a pair of underwear and they come in nearly as many styles as actual panties do. There are no buckles or straps to struggle with, but they are less “one size fits all” than the types with buckles. When picking the harness for you, keep in mind what would feel more comfortable for you and what you will be using it for.

Dildo Connections

Many harnesses come with a dildo already attached, some come with a dildo and “o” rings, while others do not come with anything at all. The most common types of harnesses are “o” rings and Doc Johnson’s Vac-U-Lock system. “O” rings allow you to slip a dildo into the ring and attach it to the harness. Some harnesses only fit a single “o” ring, while others come with a variety of sizes so you can use any dildo you want. If you have a large collection of dildos you want to use in a harness, search for one that comes with interchangeable “o” rings. The Vac-U-Lock system comes with a single plug that is attached to the harness, and it allows you to sway out dildos as often as you like, and it as easy as popping off one dildo and popping on another. Sadly, not just any dildo can be used with Doc Johnson’s Vac-U-Lock system, but many come as a kit or are marketed clearly for use with this system.

Choosing a Dildo

Picking a harness compatible dildo is just as important as choosing what sort of harness will work best for you. As I have said before, some are sold as kits or are included with your harness, but if you choose one that can be used with different dildos, eventually you will want to expand your collection. If you are brand new to begging or using a penetrative toy on your partner, you may want to begin with something smaller and thinner. Make sure that the base will fit inside the “o” ring or that the dildo is compatible with Vac-U-Lock. You should also consider material and texture when choosing a dildo. Silicone is the easiest material to take care of, but different materials will provide you with different textures, sensations, and firmnesses.

Strapless Strapons

Strapless strap ons are a fantastic option for those working on strengthening their pelvic floor or those who desire a closer feeling to their partner. There is a variety of strapless strap ons available on the current sex toy market. Not only does this option provide you with more skin to skin contact, but it also allows you to pleasure yourself, provides direct stimulation to the wearer, and helps you strengthen your pelvic floor. This type of strap on dildo is not recommended for beginners as it does require some practice to keep in place. These are the perfect option for people looking for something different from the common strap on dildos.

How to Use It

To get the best use of your strap on dildos you should use it as if it is a part of you. It will take time for you to get used to your new toy and using it as an extension of yourself. Practice by stroking it as if it were a real dick, take tips from your man (if your partner is a man) on how to thrust, embrace it and act as if it is a part of you! Try to get used to wearing it before bringing another person into the play. Especially if you plan on primarily being the wearer. Wear it around the house when you are alone.

Communication, Communication, Communication

If this is your first time using a strap on dildo, you should be comfortable talking to your partner. Open communication when trying anything new is imperative to both parties having a good time. If you are the receiver, do not be afraid to tell your partner when something feels good or when it does not. Give your partner tips on what they could do to make it more pleasurable for you. If you are the wearer, ask your partner questions, keep the communication open and flowing. Even if you are experienced with wearing and using a strap on dildo, you should communicate with your partner to ensure everyone is having a good time.

Right Positions

As with any sexual activity, ensure that your partner is comfortable moving forward and that they understand what your intentions are. Once you are clear on how long you plan to play and any other kinks you need to work out, you should figure out what position would be the more comfortable for you and your partner. Doggy style is great for anal sex with a harness because it will help you see what you are doing and be in more control of the thrusting. If you are looking for something a bit more intimate, missionary is great for eye to eye contact while penetrating your partner. To mix it up and enjoy a little fun, have your partner straddle your lap in a lap dance style while you penetrate them. If your partner is a male and you are trying pegging, do not be afraid to reach around and play with him or slip a cock ring over his member for added pleasure.

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